Fof9303 ( member #70433) posted at 10:38 PM on Wednesday, November 17th, 2021
I am so sorry that you are in this position. It is so hard and I feel your pain. I remember how hard it was for me to try and make a decision if I wanted to reconcile or split. In the end, I decided to reconcile. My thought process was Yes, I did not know if it was going to work, but just like in any marriage that does not have infidelity in it.. you never know if that will work either. I took the chance... It worked. That is not to say there were not days where I was like why, why, why am I doing this. It was hard. AT times it was two steps forward and three steps back. There were good days and there were terrible days. Eventually it became more better and less worse. I hope things turn around for you and your clarity becomes known. God bless.