Fof9303 ( member #70433) posted at 9:40 PM on Monday, November 8th, 2021
@grieving,
I feel so sad when I read this. It is hard now that the boundaries have been set to change them up. Personally, I feel that jobs need to be changed. There are other careers and jobs out there..might be a pay cut... is it convenient.. absolutely not... but it is absolutely needed. Also, there should be no social media between them that they can see each other on... Honestly, when my husband's affair was brought to light all of my husband's social media accounts were deleted, which was only FB at the time. He got a new phone and number. No contact ever again. This was the only way in my eyes that it would have worked for me. You obviously are a much stronger person than I am to know that there is still some kind of contact even if small between them. When those crappy thoughts climb into my head, I always say out loud NOT TODAY SATAN! lol If you are not comfortable with this situation of this no contact, then think about some changes that your husband needs to make.. it might be harder in the beginning.. but you will adjust. I hope that your husband continues to show you how committed he is to repairing your marriage. God Bless.
