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chepo1966 ( new member #75720) posted at 3:21 AM on Monday, May 24th, 2021
Absolon First of all, I'm glad that everything is better,
How good that your brother, can coartir with you for a few days,
Regarding OBS, I really believe, that you are a great support for her, since she sees you, as a centered man, hairy and noble of heart, I think, my humble opinion, that you should continue to support her, and not leave her alone, you know that the therapists are not so good or complete, she still needs someone in whom she can have confidence and knows that with you she feels safe, it is my oinion
With respect to your ex, you should save all evidence, but leave them, ready for, any event, but do nothing, demands and stuff, this will bring you tremendous stress and it will only wear you out, just forget it and do not take it into account , you're on all these things.
a hug, friend, and support OBS YOU ARE THE ONLY RSONA, IN WHICH YOU TRUST AND FEEL SAFE 
KingofNothing ( member #71775) posted at 5:58 AM on Monday, May 24th, 2021
Please reconsider cutting off the OBS. From all the stories that I have read, it is really truly helpful that you guys keep in touch. The ones that the BS successfully comes out of the fight always has a confidant in the OBS.
If Absolon has been foolish enough to marry this woman, I'd agree with you, if he didn't have all the proof he already needs to basically extricate a single woman out of his life. As he didn't marry her, his task is basically to protect himself from a scorned woman. She will eventually lose interest and go away, I think. Maybe she'll find some other chump to spin a story to.
Sadly, OMS needs Absolon more than Absolon needs OMS. I agree with his notion that breaking contact with anyone involved in this mess is his best way out of it.
Rex Nihilo, the King of Nothing
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“If you’re going through hell, keep going. Just please stop screaming, it’s not good for morale.”
— Winston Churchill
BS 3 DDays/Attempted R, it failed. In a better place
KingofNothing ( member #71775) posted at 6:46 AM on Monday, May 24th, 2021
Congratulations, Absolon, you hit the big time.
Go to Youtube. Look up this: "Husband suspects soon to be bride is cheating, hires a private investigator to find proof"
Rex Nihilo, the King of Nothing
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“If you’re going through hell, keep going. Just please stop screaming, it’s not good for morale.”
— Winston Churchill
BS 3 DDays/Attempted R, it failed. In a better place
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 11:59 AM on Monday, May 24th, 2021
Brother it is still a shit show. But listen to and utilise your legal practitioner to their full capacity.
Remember var at all times and let your self relax.
One day at a time.
LightningCrashes ( member #70173) posted at 7:39 PM on Sunday, June 13th, 2021
How are you doing, Absolon?
Butforthegrace ( member #63264) posted at 1:38 PM on Tuesday, July 20th, 2021
Absolon, I'm curious to know what happened vis-a-vis the veiled threats of your almost father-in-law. Did that family just shrivel up and go away? How are you?
"The wicked man flees when no one chases."
Marz ( member #60895) posted at 3:02 PM on Tuesday, July 20th, 2021
Poor muffin was pressured?
She’s a grown woman that made a decision to cheat on you.
When they commit the act of treachery and deceit in your own home and bed it’s a higher level than just an affair.
Stay as far away from this as possible. Blocking her and family on all forms of communication is a good thing.
Be thankful you didn’t marry this.
[This message edited by Marz at 9:07 AM, July 20th (Tuesday)]
Asterix1 ( new member #79261) posted at 1:29 AM on Tuesday, August 10th, 2021
Hope the ex-wf and her father are not causing any more trouble and that you are doing well.
Buffer ( member #71664) posted at 7:25 AM on Tuesday, August 10th, 2021
Banjo ( new member #76029) posted at 4:14 AM on Friday, September 24th, 2021
Just checking in Absolon, it's been quite a while.
Hope the best for you.
maxricomm ( new member #79388) posted at 10:12 PM on Friday, September 24th, 2021
During the confrontation process, gather all of her electronics and go pick her up. Tell her that you're going to a computer store that you have already contacted and will open all 0f her equipment. You will have the store make copies of everything for you. Failure to cooperate will cancel the wedding. At no point does she get out of your sight.
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