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I finally told his wife today. We're still talking right now.

Hi T1229, it’s been a while since you last posted. What’s your current status with your WW?

Have you learned any thing pertinent from OBS?

I finally told his wife today. We're still talking right now.

Good. You’ll find out real quick if they are still in contact.

Take control of your life. It is yours.

Now if your WW gets upset, you’ll need to ask yourself how does she know? They are supposed to be NC.

If you are thinking of R, your WW will need to write a timeline, so you know the whole truth.

You need to DNA test your kids. You can't be "sure" of anything because she showed you that she cannot be trusted. If they are indeed your kids the test will at least send a message to her.

[This message edited by CB260 at 6:53 PM, May 19th (Wednesday)]

If they are in contact, I don't think he's spoken to her yet. She's acting normal and is doing the usual evening routing with the kids. She had the AP and OBS blocked on iMessage, email, FB, and Snapchat. So she shouldn't hear anything of they're NC.

Situation is still the same with my WW. Waiting to see if anything comes of this.

The other BS had a few questions, nothing too specific. How I found out and when it started. She thanked me for telling her and said she wanted to ask why we ghosted them but didn't know how. She doesn't seem angry about me screwing up and not telling her, but I'd assume she's thinking it. She's upset, obviously. I offered to be there if she needed anything. She told her WH to pack a bag and leave for a few days. After a few hours she texted me and asked about some of his email addresses she found and out WS's history. That's about it so far.

Any updates on your WW and AP? What have you discussed with OBS?
Thanks!