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Divorce/Separation :
Good or bad idea?

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 Katz13 (original poster Member #41886) posted at 3:27 AM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2020

I've been thinking about sending info to the attorney for the AP's spouse some info on my WH.

I believe the AP is requesting alimony in her divorce.

I have no tangible proof of a physical affair only emotional. I could provide the attorney my WH's new address and info on them spending time together. I would advise them getting phone records to look at frequency of texts. Is that something they do?

I found the attorney's contact info on the court website. I would have to send the info anonymously but it is obvious that I'm the only one privy to this info. Doing it otherwise could cause problems at work.

Is it worth it?

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Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 4:31 AM on Wednesday, August 5th, 2020

Not really. The only thing that "may' have an impact is if there was proof of a PA, and infidelity can be grounds for a D in your state. Otherwise, the court couldn't care less about a potential emotional A. The AP would just say they are friends. Hard to prove anything otherwise, and "friends" talk/text each other.

Not worth having it potentially come around and bite you in the ass. The last thing you need is to get pulled into their drama.

I get it though. The need for retribution can be strong, but don't feed the drama Llama when you really have little to offer.

Just my two cents.

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You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

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