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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 11:30 AM on Wednesday, June 10th, 2020
Secret email account = cheating. Doesn’t have to be physical but he was acting dishonest yesterday by not telling his spouse that he was contacting other women.
Lying by omission is cheating in my book.
I hope he gets the help he needs.
And I still say stop expecting monogamy until his mental health stabilizes. Then see if there is any possible chance he will stop cheating.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
CoderMom ( member #66033) posted at 2:16 AM on Wednesday, July 1st, 2020
It is devastating when they cheat the first time, and you take them back thinking things will change and they tell you they won't ever do it again. But then it happens again. I know because I've been there. Have you considered counseling?
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