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islandgrl (original poster member #22010) posted at 5:01 AM on Monday, December 7th, 2009
Today is d-day antiversary #1.
I think I've survived it.
I had plans earlier in the week to request "doing something fun" together or having him write me a love letter.... but we're lazy(& broke) & just relaxed all day...not doing much at all.
At least I knew he was HERE. with me. and thats what mattered. (he cooked a yummy dinner too - bonus :) )
Its 8:45 and hes already asleep beside me on the couch- lol - I think because I picked a show on TV to watch & he couldnt flip the channels then. haha. (or its the beer)
I've thought about "it" several times today - I even wanted to blog about how much I hated her... but I didnt. And although I cried alot during the week leading up to today, it seems to have just not been a biggie today.
I just thought it would be nice to post something positive for a change. (since I quite often have only posted when upset)
SI is the greatest!
Me: BS (47)Him: WS (47) Together: 28 years Kids: 3 boys
suspected Aug 08, C Day: Dec.6,2008 OW - skanky co-worker "just friends"
Broken NC: many times(last attempt Aug 7,2010-no reply from OW)
getting there....
itspjw ( member #21268) posted at 5:13 AM on Monday, December 7th, 2009
no, I can't take one more step towards you...cuz all that's waiting is regret...
there's just too much that time cannot erase
dday 9/11/08
And the more I know, the less I understand
Because of you...I am afraid...
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:15 AM on Monday, December 7th, 2009
Yay. One milestone down.
You don't have to live through that one again.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
NoMorDeceit ( member #23547) posted at 5:42 AM on Monday, December 7th, 2009
Today was 7 months from D-Day for me, last night was rough, lots of tears from me, still asking why etc. but today has been kind of calm. He has been very reassuring and very sad all day too. This month was one of the worst so far, not sure if the holidays coming up have something to do with it. I'm glad you made it through OK. :)
[This message edited by NoMorDeceit at 11:43 PM, December 6th (Sunday)]
FBS
Many D Days in April 2009
Multiple affairs, LTAs, and many OWs
Reconciled for 8 years. Decided I deserved better than someone who had ever cheated on me. R failed 2/2017. Happy and free. :)
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