Don’t know what to do
Suspected cheating, gut instinct and certain behaviours I spotted. Then a friend caught him in a lie and found some stuff online and it all blew up, massive fight with him gaslighting me like mad! For once I didn’t fall for it, stood my ground and called him out. He apologised and seemed to confess and be honest about what had gone on - sexting and sending dirty pics to at least 2 people.
Cut to a few weeks later behaviours creep in again, I feel like something ain’t right and I’ve really had enough and ditch him. I won’t let him gaslight me again, then I hit a low point for other reasons and stupidly let him back in, loads of talking, he proves to me that this time he’s been totally honest and shows me everything
Well guess what! I’ve discovered more.
I am sick of being an idiot! I want to know the truth but it’s hard to find out.
I know it’s not the point but I need to know! I need to know the whole story, not bits and pieces I need closure.
I need to know exactly how many, what’s gone on, how long for and when and I don’t know how.
Can anyone help? And yea I know I should walk away but I am majorly ticked off and want to nail him on this - no maybes no uncertainty I need to know once and for all
4 comments posted: Friday, July 11th, 2025
