I don't know how if I can go on
Hi all this is just a vent on how I'm feeling right now. It has been a year since I found out about my WH affair. I have been thinking about divorcing him but what is stopping me is financial reasons and our children. I honestly don't know how I feel about him anymore and I know he's trying to change and become better but I feel like appreciate what he has done but I don't know if it fixes anything anymore. I thought about going back to therapy to help me making it through. Everything that has happened last year regarding his affair I can't stop thinking about it.
9 comments posted: Friday, March 14th, 2025
WH former AP did something weird
Hey all wanted to vent abit. It has been a year since Dday and decided to stay with WH. I saw that his former AP looked at my social media page and just out of curiosity I looked on her page and saw she posted a bunch of videos clips in one video of when they were together. She does still has some of pictures of them on her page. I remember last year I told WH about the pics/videos but he didn't say anything back then. So back to the video I mentioned, it's the next day and she deleted it. I don't think I'll tell WH but I thought it was weird and wondering if anyone experienced anything similar.
10 comments posted: Sunday, February 16th, 2025
How can I get over the fear of filling for divorce?
It has been almost 9 months since DDay. In January I found out WH had a 2 year long affair and had refused to end when I asked. Fast forward it's August and he came in one day with some clothes, shoes, etc and said he ended that relationship. I really don't know if he did or not and I can't trust him. We been getting along mostly but I think I have to make the decision to divorce. Fear is keeping me from doing it and we have 2 kids also financial reasons so I'm hoping to find out how to cover the costs of divorce
6 comments posted: Sunday, September 29th, 2024
WH ended 2 year affair should I still divorce him?
Hi all I'm pretty new here and need support.
My husband and I been married 9 years. It was 7 months ago I found out that he was having an affair going on for 2 years until now. I had wanted him to end his relationship when I discovered it but he kept refusing saying he needed time and that it wasn't easy. I remember trying to get him to stop but he wouldn't. On Easter we had an argument and I didn't mention it again and just decided to look into divorce. It was today he told me he ended his relationship with this woman and brought back a bunch of his clothes from her place. I went through therapy since the beginning and now I don't know if I want to keep the marriage. I'm not sure how I am going to talk to him
12 comments posted: Tuesday, August 20th, 2024
