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How can I get over the fear of filling for divorce?

It has been almost 9 months since DDay. In January I found out WH had a 2 year long affair and had refused to end when I asked. Fast forward it's August and he came in one day with some clothes, shoes, etc and said he ended that relationship. I really don't know if he did or not and I can't trust him. We been getting along mostly but I think I have to make the decision to divorce. Fear is keeping me from doing it and we have 2 kids also financial reasons so I'm hoping to find out how to cover the costs of divorce

6 comments posted: Sunday, September 29th, 2024

WH ended 2 year affair should I still divorce him?

Hi all I'm pretty new here and need support.
My husband and I been married 9 years. It was 7 months ago I found out that he was having an affair going on for 2 years until now. I had wanted him to end his relationship when I discovered it but he kept refusing saying he needed time and that it wasn't easy. I remember trying to get him to stop but he wouldn't. On Easter we had an argument and I didn't mention it again and just decided to look into divorce. It was today he told me he ended his relationship with this woman and brought back a bunch of his clothes from her place. I went through therapy since the beginning and now I don't know if I want to keep the marriage. I'm not sure how I am going to talk to him

12 comments posted: Tuesday, August 20th, 2024

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