Filed for divorce

I’ve filed for divorce. Can’t quite believe it still
Feels like a bad dream.
When do you come to terms with what is happening?
He’s turned into a complete stranger. His eyes are so cold. The final straw was he broke our son’s iPad in front of him.
Just feel gutted for my kids that their father turned out to be so selfish.
How did it I get it so wrong with him.
Never thought he would ever do this to us - just seems to hard to accept it all

1 comment posted: Sunday, July 21st, 2024

How to get through divorce?

How to cope through divorce?
I am just starting the process. My husband has changed into a complete stranger. How can someone you thought was your person turn you and your kids world upside down and not seem to care.
He now has all the time to himself, his parents have given him a business for him to take over. All he seems to care about his making money.
Then I’m left with all the responsibilities of the house and kids. How is any of this fair.
I have a good support with family and friends. But all I want is my family back

7 comments posted: Wednesday, June 12th, 2024

Will I ever get over this?

Totally shocked my husband did this.

Been together 16 years married 9. Never any major issues just normal married family life.

He does suffer mental health started a few years due to stress in work. Basically he worked overseas only suppose to be few weeks ended up to be 4 months. We did have a few conflicted phone calls as I wanted him home but understood he needed to finish the job and he was under pressure.

When he did come home he was off and drinking, he also stopped taking his medication as he did run out. Then on our Christmas work due he got really drunk wouldn't come home. He wouldn't answer his phone so I went on his iPad to see if i could track him that way. Then so shocked what I saw - found pics that this women has sent to him then more photos of them together. Obvious what was going on - when he came home I confronted him. He was crying and saying sorry he will do anything to fix it. His reasons were that he lost his way out there and just detached himself from real life and wasn't thinking of anything he was doing. He cant remember much of it as he was drunk every time they met up. I chucked him out and he stayed with his parents. So all our family know.

He came home after two weeks to try and sort things. Things are up and down I'm so emotional. I want to try and reconcile but just don't know if I can ever forget. Just feel like our marriage is fake. Does this feeling ever go away?

We have three young children together and work within the family business. I'm just devastated for our children our family - so is he and keeps apologising for what hes done.

Thanks for reading.

10 comments posted: Friday, March 15th, 2024