Introduction (new here)
I'm new here and wanted to take a moment to introduce myself.
I married my soul mate 15 years ago. About 4 years ago she believed I was unfaithful, so she sought revenge. She had an affair and met another married man. This affair cause a divorce in this man's life. Over the next 3 years they had on and off contact, meeting 4 times for sex. All in our home. My dday is 12/31/23. I understand that she had Limerence for this man, as she knew it wasn't love. I know we still have a deep love for each other and are committed to making this relationship better than ever.
We are empty nesters, and have the time to devote to ourselves and each other. We are both doing weekly online counseling, and will begin online couples counseling. I know there is still love because we can still sit in silence with each other touching, and we both still get lost in each other.
It's only been 4 weeks since discovery. I know where my heart wants to be, but all these triggers are hard to deal with. I'm watching videos and reading everyday how to cope. BUT IT'S FUCKING HARD.
I would love to hear if anyone is our has went through being deeply in love but so confused.
13 comments posted: Monday, January 29th, 2024
