Theaters, Arcades, Escorts, and Massage Parlors & no physical contact. Seriously?

Feeling a bit salty today so I will air my dirty laundry on this message board and welcome your comments

The story is so long so I will try and keep it short. The 1200 I spent on an investigator was the best investment I have made!! After discovering that my husband was stopping at a porn both arcade with an adult theater also about three times per week; I hired an investigator to get some footage of him visiting the establishment.

About a month later I confronted my husband about it and he said that he just stopped there to watch porn. Of course he blamed this on me and was such a coward about it. I continued to investigate on my own and discovered that he contacted around 40 escorts over about a six month period of time and also admits to visiting one massage parlor receiving a hand job but I have no doubt it was more. He claims to have never followed through with any of the escorts, but I highly doubt that also. We have been married for nine years and he admits to stopping at the arcade for 7 years although I believe that is BS too.

It was a very devastating trickle effect of information as I learned and discovered more and more over a couple month period of time and no doubt really there is probably more that I don't know about but I will no longer be wasting my time trying to figure out how liars operate and what they cover up. I filed for separation and am going to therapy with him but really do not see a future as he just operates in a deceptive manner and doesn't seem to get the concept of respect or transparency.

I took a look at his liked videos on TikTok and just recently he liked a bunch of bikini, bouncing boob girl videos, which may be normal for some or many guys but in light of what has happened and him saying he is interested in repairing the relationship I find it completely disrespectful and not appropriate considering the circumstances.

Add my trophy to the list of 55-year-old pigs fantasizing and trying to hook up with 20-year-olds!

4 comments posted: Wednesday, December 13th, 2023