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Whats cheating physically

If you are cheating ion your partner with someone . What would u describe as being physical with them ?

20 comments posted: Thursday, September 19th, 2024

Cheating gf

So I caught my gf cheating in some tiny way . So I secretly messaged her affair partner off her Instagram , saying he knows everything ..

Plz help what do u think of his reply .

"Yes I know he has been in touch with my ex wife , LUCKY NOTHING PHYSICAL HAPPENED AMD WE ONLY FLIRTED OVER SNAPCHAT ..

Snapchat is how I caught her .

What do u think what his response meant?

Plz help

22 comments posted: Saturday, September 14th, 2024

Creating

Proposed to my gf of 24 yrs xmas day 22. She said yes we have 2 kids 17 and 15.

We had a few drinks she fell asleep and went to bed . Her phone was the her phone (never had ).

I found that she was friends with a guy in all her social media playforms I noticed this a while back but didn't feel needed to act on it

Something was telling me something doesn't feel right .

Then I see she was still using snapchat . Checked through snapchat and this same guy is in her contacts as rach .

I looked through her dms with him but all was deleted except in 2018 she replied to a messge with ha ha ha , 2019 she sent another message saying no filter ha ha .

The next day I came down and said to her this guy keeps trying to add me on fb do you know him she said no , I said are you sure she said yh why … I replied well he is in your phone as rach .her face dropped . She deleted snapchat literally slly there and then .

So I got in touch with what I though was his wife and told her she said I'm not surprised I left him 2019 as he hasd social media affairs and was sleeping around .

So i messaged him on her insta account saying he knows everything wtf ?

His response lucky nothing physical happened and we only flirted off snap. I told her and I told her I know she has been physical with him .

Next day she told me one night after a night out he dropped her home and kissed her .

Thing is she knows she met him in 2012 but doesn't know how it started she admitted it started as flirting to then sending pics to each other although she only admits to topless selfies but does admit to saying stuff that was just in the moment and was fake .

He was a bouncer she met and I have also found out she went to another town in 2017 2018 and see him there but that was coincidence apparently .

I got in contact with him asked him to be honest to me .

Did u sleep with her ? No

Did you ever meet outside of work ?

Did u have any other intimate moments or anything like that his response was listen I'm.not answering anymore questions .. Talk to your wife and if you don't believe her that's not my problem he said .

Is there more to this ?

My gut says so ..I believe it's ended we have made an effort but something inside me won't go away

2012 to 2022

1 comment posted: Saturday, August 17th, 2024

Face book friend suggestions

Facebook friend suggestions?

I noticed a while back that I was getting friend suggestions of a man I never met , after further investigation I noticed that this man(another town) had 1 mutual friend in common. (my gf).

What would be the cause of this because later decovered something may of happened with this man.

Why my friend suggestion tho?

Would it mean at that time she was in contact with this guy in some way to get the suggestion ?

Confused how it all works

7 comments posted: Monday, December 18th, 2023

Snapchat private message

Can anyone explain snapchat plz

I founf messages svaed on my gf private snapchat.

She had a text message saved in 2018 saying hahahaha

She then had a text message saved in 2019 saying hahahahha no filter .

Is there anyway a picture was sent at the same TIME? why would someone save a text with their AP?

6 comments posted: Monday, November 27th, 2023

Sending naked snaps to another man ...are they having sex ?

If your partner has exchanged topless pics and received naughty pics from another man she is hiding .also admitted to kissing him but notgjng else ... What people's thoughts have they or haven't had sex ?

So much more other evidence too.

Like lifts home after a night out , that's when she admitted kissing him .

She only did this because I text him off her phone saying "he knows everything " his response was lucky nothing got physical and we only flirted over snap

Have they ?

29 comments posted: Thursday, October 5th, 2023

Caught her

sad Proposed to my gf of 24 yrs xmas day 22. She said yes we have 2 kids 17 and 15. We had a few drinks she fell asleep and went to bed . Her phone was the her phone (never had ). I found that she was friends with a guy in all her social media playforms I noticed this a while back but didn't feel needed to act on it Something was telling me something doesn't feel right . Then I see she was still using snapchat . Checked through snapchat and this same guy is in her contacts as rach . I looked through her dms with him but all was deleted except in 2018 she replied to a messge with ha ha ha , 2019 she sent another message saying no filter ha ha . The next day I came down and said to her this guy keeps trying to add me on fb do you know him she said no , I said are you sure she said yh why … I replied well he is in your phone as rach .her face dropped . She deleted snapchat literally slly there and then . So I got in touch with what I though was his wife and told her she said I'm not surprised I left him 2019 as he hasd social media affairs and was sleeping around . So i messaged him on her insta account saying he knows everything wtf ? His response lucky nothing physical happened and we only flirted off snap. I told her and I told her I know she has been physical with him . Next day she told me one night after a night out he dropped her home and kissed her . Thing is she knows she met him in 2012 but doesn't know how it started she admitted it started as flirting to then sending pics to each other although she only admits to topless selfies but does admit to saying stuff that was just in the moment and was fake . He was a bouncer she met and I have also found out she went to another town in 2017 2018 and see him there but that was coincidence apparently . I got in contact with him asked him to be honest to me . Did u sleep with her ? No Did you ever meet outside of work ? Did u have any other intimate moments or anything like that his response was listen I'm.not answering anymore questions .. Talk to your wife and if you don't believe her that's not my problem he said . Is there more to this ? My gut says so ..I believe it's ended we have made an effort but something inside me won't go away 2012 to 2022..ask me more plz help

4 comments posted: Friday, August 11th, 2023

She got caught out

Proposed to my gf of 24 yrs xmas day 22. She said yes we have 2 kids 17 and 15.

We had a few drinks she fell asleep and went to bed . Her phone was the her phone (never had ).

I found that she was friends with a guy in all her social media playforms I noticed this a while back but didn't feel needed to act on it

Something was telling me something doesn't feel right .

Then I see she was still using snapchat . Checked through snapchat and this same guy is in her contacts as rach .

I looked through her dms with him but all was deleted except in 2018 she replied to a messge with ha ha ha , 2019 she sent another message saying no filter ha ha .

The next day I came down and said to her this guy keeps trying to add me on fb do you know him she said no , I said are you sure she said yh why … I replied well he is in your phone as rach .her face dropped . She deleted snapchat literally slly there and then .

So I got in touch with what I though was his wife and told her she said I'm not surprised I left him 2019 as he hasd social media affairs and was sleeping around .

So i messaged him on her insta account saying he knows everything wtf ?

His response lucky nothing physical happened and we only flirted off snap. I told her and I told her I know she has been physical with him .

Next day she told me one night after a night out he dropped her home and kissed her .

Thing is she knows she met him in 2012 but doesn't know how it started she admitted it started as flirting to then sending pics to each other although she only admits to topless selfies but does admit to saying stuff that was just in the moment and was fake .

He was a bouncer she met and I have also found out she went to another town in 2017 2018 and see him there but that was coincidence apparently .

I got in contact with him asked him to be honest to me .

Did u sleep with her ? No

Did you ever meet outside of work ?

Did u have any other intimate moments or anything like that his response was listen I'm.not answering anymore questions .. Talk to your wife and if you don't believe her that's not my problem he said .

Is there more to this ?

My gut says so ..I believe it's ended we have made an effort but something inside me won't go away

2012 to 2022

Any advice would be great

16 comments posted: Tuesday, July 25th, 2023

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