"take it to my grave" affair revealed
Found out my wife had an affair fling for a few months when my kids were little. But what really hurts is instead of telling me, she went to my mother instead and she got her into therapy and both of them had the same idea of better yourself but don't tell him. So here I am, basically a 15 year affair, I guess she knew id divorce her, which makes sense I guess, you fell bad you did it and what you don't know can't hurt you. She also only came to my mother when the other guy broke it off so I was just plan b anyways. I could get into the type of person my mother is but I don't think it'd be exactly kind in light of this new information and what I tolerated from her previously. So that's where I'm at, I've read some of the healing library but it just makes me depressed, not because it's wrong of course, but just the circumstances I'm in
118 comments posted: Thursday, June 15th, 2023
