When the WS doesn't know that the BS knows?
What to do when they don't know that you know - and they won't admit it in joint therapy.
Any advice for a BS during wifes MLC?
I've started recovery therapy courses alone and how to survive an A and D.
Started individual therapy.
Don't even expect an acknowledgment or apology at this point.
Pure lone ache.
Pretty confident WS is in full blown MLC.
She wanted a "break/separation". "What does that mean?" I ask, "IDK" she says.
Full proof she had an A (on my birthday weekend - yay me)
AP then dumps her.
She does not know that I know.
Now she wants me to leave the house. "Nope, but you can stay with friends and I'll try to take some extra work trips to give you some space."
She is still online everyday pining for the AP, combing his/his girlfriend/family social media.
22 year marriage and she is a non-working spouse where a D will crush my $.
3/3 kids to college later this year.
Now suspect she's also started A#2. She's closing the bars on a regular basis. WTF
13 comments posted: Friday, March 31st, 2023
