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How Long Before I Am No Longer Considered A Wayward on SI?

I cheated on my ex-W and rebound gf 45 years ago. My cheating was more like 1 or 2 night stands rather than affairs all with single non-married women. This was 45+ years ago when I was in my 20s. Because I stated this when I join SI, I was labeled a wayward now on SI.

My ex-W divorcing me for cheating on her was the best thing she could have done for the both of us. She got out of infidelity, went on to remarry, divorce again because he wasn't me, and just recently remarried for the third time after an LTR.

The divorce freed me up to have many lovers over the next 5 years and only being committed to being single. I never planned to remarry ever again. I just wasn't the one and only kind of guy in those days. Then, I met my wonderfully beautiful wife. She is very successful in life and career to boot. We have built a great, loving, and monogamous life together of 40+ years.

Will I forever be known as a cheater even with being faithful to my wife for 40+ years? Even felons get paroled and forgiven at some point.

101 comments posted: Friday, May 24th, 2024

Post Nuptial

Has anyone implemented a post nuptial? Just curious to the results--successful or not?

6 comments posted: Friday, April 12th, 2024

What ever happen to Thumos?

Just been wondering if he got over his health issue. Did he r or D? Does anyone know?

2 comments posted: Sunday, September 24th, 2023

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