Another story ☹️
Hi everyone, just wanted to share my story since I am having a hard time being able to relate with anyone (which is a good thing I guess!)
My husband had a 5 week text exchange with another woman, someone he met in alcohol rehab. Things like let’s go away together to an airbnb, will be easier to get away once kids out of school. I discovered this exchange and just lost it. In full disclosure our relationship wasnt great due to the alcohol and I had seen a lawyer to understand my options but I have been experiencing hysterical bonding since DDay and I have become this needy, codependent and insecure person.
I realize this is small in comparison to other issues on this board but it really threw me for a loop in a way I completely unexpected, so my heart goes out to everyone here. It’s such a betrayal and isn’t justified despite my statements about potential divorce.
And what really irks me (even though I know I have no control) is that this woman is PINING over him. She wrote that she misses him and wishes they could stay in contact and there is a big void in her life without him. WTF
Why have I turned into this crazy lady who is so needy? Any advice or comments welcome.
Thank you for letting me vent.
24 comments posted: Friday, June 3rd, 2022
