Newest Member: IHateEverything


Head in the sand

Hello room
First, I’m gonna start out with a brief story of what happened. My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. We have three wonderful children. Most of our friends are envious of our relationship, very loving towards each other. My wife had a affair with a coworker about 10 years ago. I caught the affair three or four months into it when I confronted her she said it was over, and it would never happen again.
About two years ago I went through some old emails of hers and found messages to her affair partner two years after she said she stopped.

I fell apart, but she showed me a lot of love and I got through it. fast forward to today. She has a male coworker who lives 1000 Miles away. She seems to be in constant communication with sms txt and long phone calls. I have seen and heard the conversation. It’s all business and family but it’s constant all day long no one else is like that, including her female colleagues. At least 4 to 5 times as much.. He makes her smile and laugh.

What should I do?
Am I over reacting?
I told myself if this happens again, we are done
Should I put my head in the sand as I did before?

42 comments posted: Thursday, May 25th, 2023

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