holding on to lies to stay
I am amazed to read how deceived people express their partners' cheating with different words through therapy or suggestion.
Describing people caught after years of relationships as soul mates, best friends, etc., trying to make references to their partner's childhood/youth traumas, saying that Om abused them; Portraying adults as unable to take responsibility
I believe these people are unaware of their own trauma.
What is marriage/relationship?
Living as a roommate, controlling your partner, with the help of medication/therapy, struggling with triggers?
Are children happier!!
Those who use their partner's childhood traumas as an excuse need to realize that they are inflicting the same traumas on their own children.
I can't say you should divorce/break up, this is your life, but advocating staying in a relationship like what I wrote above is meaningless.
r success rates, love, happiness, health,trust,traumas etc. does not contain.
It is not right to call staying with a cheating partner a success.
4 comments posted: Tuesday, April 16th, 2024
