DDay 1 - 2/19/21 (found out about EA)DDay 2 - 5/22/21 (TT found burner phone)DDay 3 - 6/9/21 (TT found out about PA)

EA/PA ended 3/22/21 -WH went NCWorking on R15yr old DD at home - unfortunately knows way too much

Melanoma

Has anyone here had experiences with Melanoma? WH was just diagnosed yesterday. We know it’s at least stage 2, but could be a higher stage as the melanoma spanned the depth of the biopsy.

We are heartbroken and so freaking scared right now. He says that he feels this is his "punishment" for the things he did, which breaks my heart more. He doesn’t deserve this. No one does.

10 comments posted: Wednesday, May 10th, 2023

Angry at the 2 year mark

2 years from the beginning of the affair and I am feeling the shitty feelings this season. WH has been wonderful, has made a million changes to become a be a better person and husband. But I’ve been struggling with the antiversary this year and he is starting to slip into old defensive patterns and it’s creating this viscous cycle of irritation and anger from both of us.

I might be being a brat but I don’t feel like it’s my f-ing responsibility to hold it together right now. I feel like he needs to pull his big boy pants up and just be supportive.

Add in a teenage daughter with a major attitude problem lately and I’m ready to tap out. I understand the celebrities who go to a facility for "exhaustion" because if I could, I would so be there.

I don’t know what I’m trying to achieve from this post…venting, advice, someone to tell me that this is normal? I don’t know. I’m just beyond frustrated and want to disappear.

8 comments posted: Tuesday, February 14th, 2023

Workplace Irritation

I work in an office setting, and there is this guy who whistles (horribly btw) ALL DAY LONG!!!! It is BEYOND irritating. Like, I can hear him over my headphones. I know that he is disturbing a lot of people around him, yet nobody is saying anything.

I put in my notice last week because I'm starting a new job, so I'm not even sure that saying something would be worth it, but I feel like I'm slowly going insane.

That's it...I think I just needed to vent lol!

10 comments posted: Wednesday, October 5th, 2022