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I thought we were in good relationship, then I found wife cheati

Me and wife married for 15 years. We had supported each other during our difficult times so had mutual respect and great love. Life's been good. I'm an engineer and she is a dentist. Our first son was diagnosed with adhd and since then life has been chaotic. Everything seems to be falling in place , then I lost my job due to internal politics at office. While I was searching for job , our third was born. After few months , second one at 4 years was diagnosed with autism. That was a shock for both of us. Then I decided not to work and took him to my home country ( we are settled in dubai). Gave him speech and occupational therapy for a year and he became verbal. Came back to dubai but he had behavioral issues and we were focused on getting him best treatment. As aba is not great in dubai, and Autism being a lifelong issue, I decided to study behavioral therapy in US, I came to US in 2019. My son joined me in 2021 and he's attending school and starting his therapy. In 2017 when I came back from home country back to dubai, felt there was a distance between us. She is hardworking and one of top performer so always very tired due to work. I was with my son 24/7 and was exhausted and worried about his future.we had frequent fights but had the respect for each other. She has short temper resulting in throwing things, violent outbursts. She only encouraged to go to US and study. I was supposed to go for vacation in March 2020 but covid delayed it to july9. I reached dubai and everything was OK. Next day she said I'm a

like God to her and she is my devotee and devotees worship God but won't have sex with them. It made me think but I left it soon. On July 24, I saw her whatsapp messages to her ex colleague who left for Canada in June 2020. It was just hi hello but 6 msg in 5 hrs without a reply. I had doubt. I connected her account to desktop and monitored next day. They were chatting and she said her life is a mess and gave kisses. I asked her next morning, showed her messages. She said during his last days she saw a dream that he hugged her. She said to him .they were friends. After she said dream, he started calling her continously for a drive. Then finally in a chat he said I love u and she said same. Next day she took her alloted 3 hrs break and went to a hilltop for drive. They went there holding hands, kissed and she said she did oral sex for couple of minutes. But did not complete and they came back and then saw him once after 15 days and that's it. But messaged after he went to Canada. I said I forgive her.she said she stopped with AP. Then I made a fake account in his name and chat with her. Her messages indicated that she will always love him and had equal love for him. I asked her why she chat again when she promised that she will inform me if he contacts. She sent a message to him saying it's over telling I'm with her and asked sorry to him. But something was fishy. I tracked their whatsapp numbers and he was online when she was awake or according to her schedule. She has alternating shifts. I asked her but she dismisses that. It's been a year but I can't forget the incident and can't forgive. I still track whatsapp and both of them are online similar time. Hes online and then after he's offline she's online. So I doubt she has second whatsapp on a second phone. She says he has friends in clinic but his activity closely matches her. When he's online she's missing even if I message. She shows no remorse and only when I say about incident she will say sorry.the relationship is very bad now. I had therapy but I can't imagine why she did this when I was in US and she had 3 kids 2 being special. The AP she says is a flirt and always told me that she avoids him. She says he was caring towards her , came with her to Dr when she had chest pain and because of such incidents she felt close.He manipulated her and she was stupid to go for the drive.thats was just one day. I'm confused whether someone will initiate ( she did ) oral on first date and on way back he offered to buy a phone. Next day as seen from her message , he said they can be good friends but she said she don't need just friendship. I got from her phone. I'm convinced they are chatting but denies it and ask me for proof. Now I may work in US for few years. She says she won't leave her job as she is passionate about it and don't want to sit idle in US. she is accusing me of harassing and torturing her with asking questions. We are not talking each other. Don't know whether her story is true?

105 comments posted: Monday, June 14th, 2021

I thought we were in good relationship, then I found wife cheati

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