M = 41 yrs on DDay = May 2018
Me/BS = 60; WH = 63
Not R
In House Separated = May 2024
Filed For D = March 2025

Remember who you are and what you want.

In case I don't see you . . . Good afternoon, good evening, and good night.

'In case I don't see you . . . Good afternoon, good evening, and good night.' The Truman Show

For those of you who went through with divorce, what were those last moments that you had with your WS? Just before your divorce was final and immediately after? Was there a kiss, a hug, a wave, a moment that stays with you? Was it sad, happy, weird? If you could relive those moments, would you want to, would you change anything? Was that the last time you saw your WS?

3 comments posted: Thursday, March 27th, 2025

Ten Months Of In House Separation - Now This

Last week I retained an attorney to proceed with a divorce after 10 months of IHS. He must have suspected this as he came to me inquiring before I was ready to tell him. After only 2 days of this knowledge, he has come to me asking me to stop all of it. I had put together beforehand a list of terms should we come to this conversation - and I am surprised that he has agreed to all my terms. I have been emotionally ready to risk all and divorce and have been looking at life afterwards. In these few hours since his request, I have decided to proceed with divorce - for now to know if he will really comply and get through my terms. His reaction is a sudden change that I wasn't expecting. To be in limbo for so long, then IHS, then - I don't understand.

17 comments posted: Monday, March 3rd, 2025

Did You Tell Your Wayward About Your Divorce Intentions Before Or After You Filed?

Did you tell your wayward about your intention to divorce before or after you filed? Advice please.

9 comments posted: Friday, January 3rd, 2025

Did The 180 Make A Difference For You?

What is your experience with the 180? How long ago? Where are you now?

2 comments posted: Thursday, December 26th, 2024