Hard to understand it was just for the sex
Question for wayward spouse...i hooe you dont mind me asking but other forums arnt helping much...
My husbands AP didnt know he was married, he is adamant that he never had any feelings for her,didnt love her etc...it was just sex for him,i think she really fell for him as she offered to ick him up from the airport and wanted to invite him to her folks for christmas bla bla..he said he turned her down with whatever excuse i didnt ask.. he met up with her when he went to christchurch for work which was 3 times. Anyway long story short..is it possible for the wayward spouse to have no feelings involved and really just be about sex and the excitement of the illicitness.
He called her a few times which i questioned him about..if it was just sex why call her and chat...he said he realy doesnt know...maybe bored at work..dumb reason but i put it down to the fog.
Im not being nasty but she was a downgrade compared to me so not sure what he saw..maybe she was a nice person i dont know. And iv gone over the texts hed send to me and they say things like iv never loved you and our little family more than i do now or i love you like nothing else on earth...so my question 2 is..can you absolutely love your BS dearly and cheat on them? Or was it all a lie. So hard to grasp the idea
1 comment posted: Tuesday, May 5th, 2020