The cheater
Wh- has gotten an apartment 2 blocks away.. I wish it was 2 hrs away lol..
He now says he wants a separation not necessarily a divorce…..he originally insisted we were divorcing with no path forward..
I am so sick of this and wish I knew how not to care…
Trying my best not to cry in front of him.. I am not sad about losing him but I am so sad of losing the man I thought he was …
11 comments posted: Thursday, February 27th, 2025
WH blocked our children on FB
How many people have had WH block their children in FB? And what bad things are you doing that you need to block your children on FB?
We have kids ages 11 to 29… 11 and 17 year old don’t have FB but other 4 kids all adults have FB and are blocked ….
Background- married 30 years 6 kids.. serial cheater.. most recent affair I know of is long term several years! I snapped one night and called him out on it infront of the kids and than he said I crossed his boundary so he is divorcing me..
What it really means is- he wants to do whatever he wants too and doesn’t want to have to hear about it…. Selfish, selfish, selfish…
3 comments posted: Thursday, February 27th, 2025
WH leaving
He says he isn’t leaving me for the other woman- but I don’t believe that.. He has been involved in a long term affair… With my former bestfriend..
When will I ever get over this anger.. I know it’s best he leaves he takes no responsibility for anything.. He lies as easy as he breathes…
Why do I even care? He hasn’t been nice to me in years… yet I am still so heartbroken…..
4 comments posted: Wednesday, February 19th, 2025
My wh suggested therapy- but he still insists there is no path forward for us
Hi!
53 years old- married 30 years .. I am sure i am dealing with a serial cheater ..Hr has been involved in an affair with my former bestfriend for 10 years.. stupidly I stuck around hoping he would eventually choose me and his kids :(
Now he says he wants a divorce because- I told the kids about his latest weekend of cheating.. I am turning the kids against him he says- although he did that all by himself…
I am done with this.. I love this man since I was 21… but I don’t deserve this.. she the former bff or whoever can him.. he will never stop lying or cheating so good luck…
I married him thinking he would be a good father turns out he is a terrible father because men don’t treat their wives and kids like disposable trash…
6 comments posted: Thursday, February 6th, 2025
Why won’t he move out
WH has been having an affair for years… In Sept he told me he wants a divorce but he hasn’t moved out … Finances are an issue- but why won’t he just go stay with a friend or move in with the whore? She is single…
I even packed him a suitcase and offered to drop him off at her house and I was serious.. I just want him out…
9 comments posted: Sunday, December 29th, 2024
Don’t know what to do
WH has been in an affair for last 5 years- now he says he is leaving… I have known about the affair and was hoping he would find his way back to me and his family. He did not…Now he says he wants a divorce said that in Sept - but he still hasn’t left… financially he can’t afford another place however I have told him to go stay in a friends couch.. He refuses to leave..
I have had it… I was away the other weekend and of course he went to see the whore… I don’t know why but this is my breaking point I want him out of the house and she can have him… I just can’t deal with him carrying on anymore while he is still living with me and the kids…
In someways it is better for me legally if he stays in the house- he is working in business deals that could produce a lot of money… but at the same time I want him out !!!!! I have had it!!!!!!
What should I do???
2 comments posted: Sunday, December 29th, 2024
He did the dishes for first time in 30 years
Wh told me 3 months ago he wants a divorce- he is still on my couch! I think mostly do to finances..
I was away last weekend and found a receipt that shows he was with the other woman last weekend.. I confronted him - packed him a bag and told him I want him to go live with her ..I insisted that I would like to drop him off at her house and she could have him…
I go out last night and when I come home- he has done the litter , cleaned the house and is doing dishes.. He hasn’t done dishes in 30 years!
He wants me to go with to the city with him and the kids today- asked me again last night.. I politely told him No..
Any thoughts ?
3 comments posted: Sunday, December 22nd, 2024
Help- wh in house with me during the holidays
Husband has been cheating for years with the same women…and probably other women as well…. I knew about the affair but was hoping he would eventually come to his senses … He didn’t…He told me 3 months ago that he wants a divorce but he is still in the house!!
He continues to see ow while in the house with me and the kids..Found a receipt that proves he saw ow last weekend while I was away!!! I have had enough…. I packed him a bag today and told him I want to drop him off at her house and she can have him… He won’t go ….
And I am very serious I would like to drop him off at her house and she can have him….
3 comments posted: Saturday, December 21st, 2024
Why is he rushing a divorce???
Hello!
I am the betrayed spouse.. I will not get into all the details long story- my ww husband we will call him bob has been having an affair for the last 4 years….we have been married 30 years and have 6 kids.. I have 2 affairs confirmed and suspect he has cheated the entire marriage…
I hit my breaking point a few weeks ago when I came across a hotel reservation on his phone… he hasn’t been sleeping with me lol so the hotel room wasn’t for me lol
I broke every dish in the house.. and told the adult children in the house 28 and 19.. we also have a 16 yr old and 11.. and 2 other kids out of the house..
Any way that was in Sept he immediately asked me for a divorce because he says I turned the kids against him ha ha .. the kids already knew and have known for years smh…
Well he is still in the house plans to move out in Jan and want to file for divorce immediately and wants me to sign a divorce decree.. so what’s the big rush???? He hasn’t even left the house yet…
He is offering a generous settlement but I suspect that he is expecting a huge windfall of cash sometime in 2025 and that’s the reason for the rush..
In our state it mandates a year of separation before filing so I have no idea why he thinks he can file immediately.. I said I want the year of separation and he said that’s okay. It he still want all documents signed in Jan .. back to Jan again sounds suspicious…
When I told him I wanted future profits from his company he told me he is closing his company in Jan and opening a new one in Feb.. again there is Jan again!!!!
When I told him I wasn’t agreeing to anything till after the year separation he became enraged and almost hit me..
I than read his divorce decree that he is writing and the kicker is- he puts down that if I tell other women’s family or friends about the affair that I lose everything..
I laughed tild him he can take his divorce paperwork and shove it where the sun don’t sign…
Meanwhile my state weighs infidelity and domestic abuse in divorce settlements- I have him on both..
He has tried to control me my whole marriage and now he wants to control the divorce- good luck!!!!
12 comments posted: Saturday, December 7th, 2024
