Newest Member: Seekinghelptoo


BH 49WW 49Married almost 22 years at time of AShe had an affair Dec 2017-Feb 2018Found them together 2/2/18 Final Dday 2/23/18 Still don't know the whole truthTrying to R

Time to S*** or Get Off the Pot!

Hello SI. I have come to a point where I have decided that I need certain things from my wife.
I have a list of things I need from her and if she is not willing then I have decided to move forward with separation.
If she does not accept my conditions (a real possibility) what are my immediate next steps? I want to start detaching right away. I have held this together for 4 years for the sake of my family and I am tired.
Is an in home separation really doable? I have 2 children who are grown and a 12 year old son that I am extremely close with. I will not be moving out and I will not ask her to. We do actually coexist fairly well but I can’t continue to live a less than full life because she is unwilling to meet my needs.
Thoughts? Suggestions?

24 comments posted: Sunday, January 9th, 2022

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