Newest Member: Col2gar6681


Married 19 years, together 24. 3 children. DD1 2/21/18. DD2 6/7/18 EA. BS 49, WH 50.
DD3 3/30/22 PA

Actions prove who someone is; words prove who someone wants to be.

I think my marriage is over.

I have made it a point to let my WH know what my needs are so there is no confusion. He has put forth no effort. I was just informed that he got me nothing for Christmas. I gave a few ideas and he let the kids pick one each to get me something. So, I will have something to open. From him though, he said he thought I'd like a massage but he didn't know where I wanted to go. So, I can just call myself. I think he WANTS me to leave him.

I know no one has answers for me and only I can decide...I just needed to vent. Thank you for listening.

12 comments posted: Saturday, December 24th, 2022

Am I wasting my time?

Ok so, here goes.We went for a walk the other day. I mentioned a fun memory I had of him and the kids. He said something about not having a lot of memories with the kids. I asked what happy memories he has of me. He brought up a memory with the kids and again I asked about me. HE COULDN'T COME UP WITH ONE. 24 fucking years together and he couldn't find ONE memory.

He mumbled something about feeling like he had failed some test. OMG, does he not even care about me? Am I reading too much into this? I have said nothing for days about it. I thought, maybe I put him on the spot and he just couldn't think then. I figured if he had a chance to think about it then he would come to me to talk. Nope. Nothing.

13 comments posted: Friday, June 10th, 2022

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