Antiversary almost didn’t register.
I was reading some forums about people having D-days near Xmas and struggling with antiversaries I thought to myself "oh yeah, I found out a few days before Xmas 4 years ago. If I hadn’t read those posts I’d have forgotten about it. I don’t think it’s really a positive thing, it’s more of a polf thing. I’m pretty disappointed in the way R went and I’m just feeling over it.
Small update; My WW is finally in agreement over placing our large, violent and autistic 16 year old son into a home. Unfortunately there is a 14 month wait for placement. I’m supper pissed, because it’s been my belief that he should have gone over two years ago and our family has been needlessly put through more stress and danger and will be for another 14 months of it, when it should have been done long ago. Also I fear it won’t happen and I’ll believe it when I see it. Part of our relationship problems is my WW will say or agree to anything in the moment to get me to back off and not following through. It’s probably the thing I was most disappointed in during R.
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