Newest Member: TotallyShatteredandlost


"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain Me: Living life! Him: Not my problem anymore Married 15 yrs. 1 LTA, Many EAs from 2009 - ? Dday 1 = 6/16/17 Last Dday = 1/4/18 Started loving myself 2018!

Writing on the wall

I don’t want to get involved in this ugly mess, but I’m really angry.

I have a coworker who is a single woman going to lunch with another coworker who is a married man. They have been going to lunch every day for weeks. They don’t work in the same department and have no reason to go together.

I literally want to shake him. He has 4 kids and a beautiful wife. I know the slippery slope he is on. I know what this will cost that entire family. I can’t even see straight I’m so angry for his wife and kids.

14 comments posted: Saturday, April 30th, 2022

Looking Back

I don't usually look back, but my husband and I were talking recently about different denominations and how exactly they differ. He mentioned that the denomination of the minister that married me to my now Ex believes that everyone is good. It made me think about how my Ex had written that minister about his infidelity. We were married by him since he was a friend of my father.

Anyway, I re-read the letter that my ex wrote and the response from the minister. Re-reading now when I'm not in the middle of the mess, was different to say the least. My ex did his best to sound remorseful and repentent. And, honestly, I would have questioned my memory except I responded to his email with one question: How come you didn't tell the pastor about the number of times you called me Bitch or told me Fuck you just last night?

So, this morning over breakfast, I was telling my husband about it. He actually laughed out loud at my response to his email. He then said, what a fool.

I'm sharing this only because sometimes I think we like to think that it wasn't that bad or that maybe we made the wrong decision to divorce. I know I don't have any doubts about it. But it was kind of an eye opener to see just how much he was willing to put me down while pretending to be remorseful and saying that I was his world.

1 comment posted: Thursday, September 10th, 2020

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