4 weeks out so much TT

I recently found out my BF cheated 9 months ago

we were only 3 months or so into our relationship

He was drinking and using drugs

it was 1 time thing that he says he regrets

What makes it worse is that his brother had been sleeping with this women as well!

I have only found out because his brother new GF was mad at him and contacted me to let me know as she had a vendetta.

BF has admitted he never would have told me other wise

Since then it has been TT all the way

I am still finding info out now

He keeps playing the card he thought we were over - we had had a row the day before and the next night hes with someone else

he didnt manage to have full intercourse as he was too messed up but both had oral sex

My Bf keeps throwing back at me he thought we were over like its some excuse to behave like this

He is doing some work but doesnt seem to see the importance of full disclosure and how simple things like getting the dates wrong are dragging me back to the start over and over

this is making me so ill and i have such rage

Im thinking its best to walk away - he says he loves me ad is sorry and has told me all the delightful details Ive asked but I have had to drag them out slowly

he has said its because hes ashamed to talk about it

I just feel so lost as to what to do anymore

He doesn't seem to think about any of the consequences to his actions

is there any point in bothering when we are not even a year together

I also spoke to the AP and she said it wasnt even her and she only met my BF once- but i believe she is lying

4 comments posted: Wednesday, April 16th, 2025