Newest Member: comadreha


BW, DDay 24/08/2017, the road to R is long and windy.

4th anniversary of DDay

Hi guys

Tomorrow's the 4th antiversary of DDay.

This year, it's not the anger that's topmost. It's the sheer heartbreak.

I have been desperately sad, tearful, but not sobbing, for 3 days.

I know it's getting better. I am in a very different marriage to the one I was in on DDay. He stepped up, he's the husband I wanted for many years.

But this stuff still hurts. A lot. And the antiversary brings them back into focus. And I don't think I'll ever "forget" the date - it is also his birthday 🙈

Anyone farther along the road able to give some hope that the sadness dissipates, like the anger has? Or any suggestions for processing it out of my system? (Yes, I do journal, before a certain person asks 😋)

Thank you, either way, for listening.

10 comments posted: Sunday, August 22nd, 2021

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