Looking for…understanding/encouragement
Haven’t posted in some time. Dday was 10/2016. WH had Physical A for 3 months. R took several years.
Fast forward and 20th anniversary is this month and this "milestone" is bringing up more negative than positive feelings. Hurt that the marriage and vows weren’t honored by WH and that celebrating 20 years doesn’t feel authentic.
The goals had been to renew vows in celebration of R and that hasn’t happened yet, not a formal ceremony just words to one another….
A new anniversary also doesn’t feel correct. We
Have been married for 2 decades and "in good times and in bad" certainly applies to recovery from an A. How have others navigated this?
7 comments posted: Sunday, March 10th, 2024
A season….7 years after Dday
Reflecting more than I’d like to be as I approach 7 years from Dday next week.
A season unfortunately included our anniversary and WH birthday.
While we’ve made strides in R after his PA, things like this are still soured by what happened.
I suppose just looking for support from those who have special events in the midst of A season and how to keep moving forward reclaiming those dates….
9 comments posted: Saturday, September 30th, 2023
