Me- BW- 44 Him-WH-53 27yr marriage 2003 EA, 2008 2 EA, 2016-2017 EA/PA 2024 new A

Update

Last December I found out WH was back into cheating. This time I didn't waste any time on investigation or anything else. My sons persuaded me to see MC and IC, although I had already decided to leave. I tried to be civil through the holidays. He was careless and suspicious all the time. Yesterday again I caught him and he went very nervous and tried to gaslight me, lie his way out of the mess, but I am actively looking for a place to move out this week. Hopefully tomorrow I can settle something.
My lesson: the guy is seriously sick, a pathological liar, a people pleaser, a pharisee who speaks all about God but knows him not.

3 comments posted: Sunday, February 9th, 2025

Once Again.Never thought I'd be back here

I should've known. Back in 2017 the OW told me he would keep cheating. She was right.
So today, we're talking about buying presents for our sons and he gets really nervous when he opens WhatsApp. I ask what's wrong and he starts breathing restlessly, his hands shake and for one or two hours he won'tlet me see it. Until finally, with the phone intervention of our sons, he hands me the cell phone. And voila! He has an affair with his business partner, who, by the way is totally insane and has stabbed him in the back on countless occasions.
So, this time, I have finally decided to leave. Tomorrow I will see an apartment and if possible, move out soon. Help! My heart is broken but mostly I'm tired of all the bull he's put me through

3 comments posted: Monday, December 2nd, 2024

Jail and A similarities

My FWH was arrested in Nov. 26,2023. He was in jail for 2 months, totally unfair, by the way. He has cleared his situation.
However, all this mess reminded me completely of the A. It affected him as much as the A affected me.
First, as I said, it was unfair, out of the blue. It brought him great shame and suffering. He has had many psychological issues.

I really feel sad for this all. And it has brought me back in time, so much I even went and searched for OW.

I don't want to mention this to anyone around us. Just needed to vent.

2 comments posted: Tuesday, February 13th, 2024

Jail and A similarities (moved to General)

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0 comment posted: Tuesday, February 13th, 2024

A trustworthy hacker?

So, this time it's my son who has been cheated on, apparently. I need to present him with the evidence of at least WhatsApp messages of his fiancé and OP.
Anyone know of a trustworthy hacker?

1 comment posted: Tuesday, August 1st, 2023