Me (call me Thea): BW - 40s
xWH - 40s
M 18 years at DDay Aug 2016
Currently S, mediating D
"Too Good to Leave Too Bad to Stay" - Kirshenbaum
Thinking of reading this in hopes of working through my ambivalence. Anyone have any thoughts about it?
For a little background, WH has been seeing prostitutes for our entire marriage, off and on. I found out last August. We were already in MC for relationship issues because he was not meeting my needs, he was a roommate with benefits essentially. So, obviously, work needed. I feel like the flame of love was barely flickering and dday doused it pretty completely.
He is doing some work on himself, more in the recent weeks. Some days I am confident that I can't wait any more for him to figure his stuff out. Others, I think I should give him more time. Round and round I go. I'm in IC, which is helping, but I thought doing some reading would also help.
If not this book, what others do you suggest?
7 comments posted: Thursday, April 27th, 2017