TT DDays, the last big one April 2015
Married 21 years.
Learned after this EA/PA in MC, this was not his first.
We both are working hard at R.
Finally had the courage and it didn't work
I am between 12 and 18 months from DDay. My Wh and I are doing really well in R but I just have this nagging itch to read text messages between them. Its been persistent... I never read a thing between them. 90 % of their written affair occurred on a secret email account that he never downloaded to his phone. That account was deleted as soon as I learned about it. I didn't even have a chance to think let alone ask him to let me see it. Anyway.... after over a year of thinking about it, I upgraded my SI account today to look into this forum. I downloaded Dr fone. I have both of my WH's old phones he had when he was in the affair. 2 completely different times of the affair as well. I knew which phone i was going to look at first.... interestingly, its not the "juicy" part of the affair.... but it would tell me a lot about his intentions.
Anyway - dr done didn't work. I think its because WH did a factory reset on them. What do you think?
10 comments posted: Tuesday, April 5th, 2016
