BS - Me (50)
Divorced 6/1/22
DS1 - 20, DS2 - 17
DDay #1- 12/26/14
DDay #2 - 2/6/21

~ Damaged people are dangerous. They know they can survive.

What to tell the kids?

Hello all! Long time SI member, first post in Divorce/Separation.

I have made the decision to divorce WH, he is aware. At the time of DDay#2 we decided that we would not tell anyone until June. DS1 struggled in his first semester of college and he will be the one that takes D the hardest, he is my sensitive one. So, I wanted him to be able to succeed or fail on his own at college for his second semester.

WH and I are living together still, he is sleeping in DS1's room. I think we're pulling it off for now, but who knows!

Anyway, we plan on telling the boys in early June. My question is: Do we tell them why we are divorcing? The boys are 16 (sophomore in high school) and 19 (freshman in college). I think they should know the truth but I wanted to check in with my SI Family and see if anyone has experience and/or opinions since I have time to plan.

3 comments posted: Monday, March 29th, 2021

Blackberry text recovery

Does anyone know of a program that will help recover deleted texts from a Blackberry?

Also, the BB is no longer in service, for about a year now. Does that matter?

3 comments posted: Monday, March 2nd, 2015

Find iPhone help

In another thread on another forum, someone mentioned they went back into their WH iPhone and looked at the history of where had had been using the Find iPhone feature and saw he went to OW house three times in a week.

Another poster asked how she did that, I went to look for the response today but can't find it....of course.

Our iPhones are connected through family sharing. I know how to see his position real time but not how to look at his history. Does anyone know how to do this?

4 comments posted: Wednesday, February 25th, 2015