Newest Member: AcesEights


Me: 63
Him: 67
Together 9 years
D day May 13th 2013

The emoji's don't lie

Posting here as it seems like no one visits/posts in Investigative Tips any more. Open your WS messages ( I have an IPhone), pick yourself or anyone to send a text to ( safer to use yourself in case you accidently send it ) hit the smiley face on the bottom left hand corner to open your most used Emoji's. When I look at my WH last used ones there is an Emoji there that I haven't got from him at least back to Dec 19, 2019. I only delete the texts from him that don't have Emoji's - that way I can see the ones that he uses the most and actually sort of track them. Doesn't make sense that the one I am questioning stays in the top 8 used and he's not sent to me - even when he sends at least me numerous others that appear after it.................thoughts peeps?

25 comments posted: Wednesday, June 9th, 2021

Make a call in Alberta

Hi. Can someone with a cell phone number in Alberta make a call for me? PM me if you can help and I will give you details Thanks peeps

0 comment posted: Wednesday, February 10th, 2021

Iphone and Ipad Contacts

I discovered today that Contact information doesn't always load to both the phone and Ipad. I was checking number that my WH had called and spent 24 minutes talking to a while back. I looked on his Ipad to see if the number was in his contacts - nothing. Don't know why but today I thought I would check it on the Iphone and there it was! And not in under a contact that I would associate it with.......... so all you peeps with Iphones and Ipads make sure that in the settings on the Ipad under Icloud it is clicked to sinc the Ipad contacts with the Iphone .

0 comment posted: Wednesday, February 3rd, 2021

Book : I am Enough

Hi, I am just about to start this Audiobook by Marisa Peer. Has anyone here read/listened to it?

0 comment posted: Saturday, January 23rd, 2021

Pinterest messages

I have a Pinterest app. So does my WH. Tonight he was showing me a picture of something and at the bottom of the screen I see a red dot beside the speech icon. Does that mean someone has messaged him ? I don’t use Pinterest Very much and do not use the messaging feature .....spidey senses are on fire tonight. Any help with is is appreciated

4 comments posted: Wednesday, January 13th, 2021

Topics/Posts are closed?

I didn't realize until today that Topics here are closed after a while? Is there a criteria for that to happen???

2 comments posted: Sunday, November 22nd, 2020

Clearing Settings every visit

I enjoy a professional career which has me on my phone a lot. Texting, e mails etc to connect with my clients. It never occurs to me on either my phone or my Ipad,( which I watch Netfix on and surf Facebook and Instagram) to go into my Settings on either device. When doing a bit of checking here and there on my WH's phone and IPad I see that almost EVERY day he is showing that he has been in the Settings on both devices. He isn't maybe one of the most literate people on the planet as far as computer/phone savvy but this has me really wondering why there is this need to go into his settings so often?????

5 comments posted: Thursday, November 12th, 2020

Bringing up the "Good ol Days"

H did it again. Made what he thought was a cute thoughtful remark about something that we had done/enjoyed together years ago. Except that while this activity was being enjoyed he was in full EA mode with I don't know how many online women. God I just cringe when he brings stuff up that he thinks were "good times" between us, and totally forgetting/burying/not reflecting first on the timeline that he was cheating on me while these events happened. Me bad - I've never found the words to stop him in his tracks. I guess an "yes wasn't that a whole lot of fun, and yet not good enough enjoyment for you asshole, as you still needed to look outside our relationship for fun and kibbles !!!" Any one else getting this callous and self serving bahaivior?

5 comments posted: Wednesday, November 11th, 2020

History of calls in the car

Going into the History in my WH car yesterday I only found one phone number, so he is deleting his history. I had an epiphany I think. If one was foolish enough to link up a burner (2nd phone) to the car it should also keep that History until its deleted. So I will be on occasion going in and taking pictures of the calls and matching them up to the phone bill. Any that don't appear on the bill would lead me to think that another phone was used for calls that don't show up on the bill??? Thoughts peeps???

18 comments posted: Thursday, August 13th, 2020

Reddit and Twitter

Is there any way of knowing if someone is on Reddit? Or Twitter? Complete geek here on those two platforms as I don't use them. I don't know a user name for either of them either if my WH is using them. Thanks peeps

4 comments posted: Tuesday, June 30th, 2020

About Pinterest

Anyone else have a WS that has a Pinterest account? When my WS is on it there are pings that come thru, that I don't think he knows that I can hear. I don't use it enough to know my way around it. I know that it has a message feature and that you need to be following someone and vice versa to send and receive messages. Help is always appreciated

3 comments posted: Tuesday, January 14th, 2020


Hi. Has anyone ever used a spoof phone number program? Looking for a good program that will call a number and shows a number calling them that you give it? Any reviews or suggestions of ones that have worked?

1 comment posted: Monday, September 23rd, 2019

I Pads etc

My WH has a new I Pad which he has set up. I know that he gets messages on it because they pop up on the screen from time to time. He's not very techy and usually has used a smart pad. Because he doesn't think he will use it much he has offered it to me. Anything I can look into on there if he has it all set up to link up with his I phone?

4 comments posted: Friday, September 6th, 2019

Emoji's and Images

I have noted on my WH phone the most recent Emoji's that he has used occasionally when texting haven't been sent to me and it seems that he has sent one or three or four that are questionable. I'm continuing to monitor this and as well have started to check when I send the moving images ( the red button ) on the text bar to see if the most recent ones that I have sent come up first and yes the last three images I sent are at the top. Next exercise will be to check my WH images and see what has been recently sent. Posting this as I think that it is a good idea not to erase any of our WS texts so that we can look back and cross reference these. Any thoughts????

6 comments posted: Thursday, July 18th, 2019

Pinterest question

I have found a HUGE amount of time spent on Pinterest on my WH phone ( battery usage/activity)I know that my WH is fond of watching food videos. But am a little edgy as that battery time on his phone is well over anything else, not only on the 24 hour battery activity but the 10 day activity as well. He does a lot of texting, phoning and Safari searching as he works for himself and this activity lately has surprised me because its a really excessive amount. So my question, can you text, chat with people on Pinterest? I have gone on it very little so don't know all of the ins and outs of it.

7 comments posted: Tuesday, May 28th, 2019

Web watcher pink screen shots

Why do I get 3-5 screen shots that are completely pink? There doesn't seem to be any web page or search activity for the time that these screen shots are logged??????

0 comment posted: Thursday, May 16th, 2019

Switching numbers under contacts

I haven't done much investigating but every now and then on a weekend or evening my WH gets a call from a trades person that is working for him. It seems to be a current trade that I would know of because of the jobs that he is currently working on. I'm wondering if someone that he shouldn't be hearing from is calling and that possibly he goes into his contacts and adds that number to a new current contact to avoid me getting suspicious. Now there are times when these calls are legit, I can hear the guy talking. But my SO turns off his ringer in the evening and weekends saying he doesn't want to be bothered by calls..........Saturday night one of those calls came in while we were in the car and the ringer was off, but I heard the vibration, told him he had a call and he looks at the caller and says how he hates it when they call after hours/weekends etc. He didn't answer it. I know a lot of us here have found that our SO are hiding numbers under different contacts and I plan to check this one as soon as I can. I'm posting this to ask anyone about issues they have had with their SO hiding numbers. There was at one point last year that I caught a very short conversation at home on a VAR that had him saying "don't text me my phone is...." and that's all it recorded. Why would he be telling someone, anyone, not to text him???? So I'm thinking that he may only get calls and he doesn't have to answer them and could check a voice mail later............

6 comments posted: Monday, May 6th, 2019

Web Watcher questions

I'm pretty sure that anything logged on Web Watcher shows up except I'm not sure if the Incognito mode is used does that show up on the Web Watcher report? And if it doesn't wouldn't the key strokes logger at least capture the keystrokes when the user is in that mode?

8 comments posted: Tuesday, January 8th, 2019

Planes Trains and Automobiles

In the first week of this month I looked at WH Iphone where you hit the home button twice to show you the apps still open in the background. There was a flight tracker page still open with an incomimg flight to our city that would land at 9:30 pm that night ( a Thursday ). Closed it and was left to wonder a bit, let it go. This morning checked the Battery Status page and when I flipped to the Show activity for the last 24 hours all looked ok, switched to the last 10 days (I think - I had to act fast ) and there was 25 minutes of screen time for a Planes app. So scrolled thru the apps pages on the phone and there it was, the last app on the last page. Odd as we aren't traveling anywhere and to the best of my knowledge my WH is not receiving any cargo or packages to him/us thats arriving by plane. That app hasn't been there for very long I don't think but is causing me to go into investigate mode again.....because who sits on a plane tracking app for 25 minutes??? any thoughts???

1 comment posted: Sunday, November 25th, 2018

What is this ????

When I open the Safari Web Data on my WH cell phone the most website data (11.3 MB) is being used by and when I put that into my browser nothing comes up. I think it has something to do with Yahoo but lower down on the list is with 3.7 MB of data. Any help peeps?????

5 comments posted: Friday, November 2nd, 2018

Blocked Caller List

When you check the blocked caller list on an IPhone under the Settings-Phone-Call Blocking & Identification and it shows you the blocked numbers - I have more or less figured out that you have to scroll to the bottom to see the most recent blocked caller - it's not the one at the top that is the most recent. My question is - if you unblock a caller should you be able to figure that out if other numbers take that last called spot? Thinking that checking this a couple days in a row might unearth the fact that a WS may be blocking and unblocking a number in order to make contact when not with a BS. Thoughts?

0 comment posted: Thursday, August 2nd, 2018

Finding facebook data on safari

On an iphone if I go to settings and go to Safari and then to Advanced and to Website data it will show the website data used on the iphone. I know that it probably doesn't show anything when the user is on WiFi but if they use data to go on websites in Safari how much data would let you know that it was an actual website visited instead of the small MB and KB's used by the cookies that are tracking in the background? I am specifically concerned because I have seen a fairly large MB use some days for Facebook, and my WH doesn't have Facebook since we deleted it........

3 comments posted: Tuesday, March 27th, 2018

Web Watcher for PC

I'm going to get the Web Watcher program for a PC shortly. Anyone want to weigh on on pros/cons??

7 comments posted: Thursday, March 8th, 2018

Text showed up on Bell bill

My WH and I both have Bell accounts. So, whenever he calls me it's logs on his Bell bill, the call. The texts never show up because of I think that Bell to Bell thing that they have ( I hate that because I know I am missing a lot of the texts that he sends to other Bell users ) so those don't show up. This morning I am checking his usage and it shows that he sent me a text and I can see the text on my phone. So why would this text show up on the bill and not the hundreds of others that he has sent me in the past????

2 comments posted: Wednesday, March 7th, 2018

Can I send a screen shot on here

I'm on a PM with a member here and I want to send them a picture of a screen shot, how do I do that?

4 comments posted: Friday, February 23rd, 2018

Does someone have a Skype Account

If you do and would do a Skype directory search please PM me

1 comment posted: Tuesday, February 13th, 2018

Candy Crush Soda

This isn't an app on my WH phone but every now and then his phone is using huge amounts of data. So I think he might be going thru Safari to play it. As well it looks like on the dns server on his laptop that the Candy Crush Soda site is visited. Anyone play that game on their laptop/computer that can tell me of there is a chat available on it?

2 comments posted: Monday, November 13th, 2017

Expert on Data usage on iphone needed

If you are apt in data usage on iphones could you please PM me.

0 comment posted: Monday, October 23rd, 2017

Sites visited and Ipconfig

When running ipconfig a certain website visited keeps showing up on the log. I flush the DNS and when I check the log again the same website address shows up. When I put that actual address in a search it says website error. Any techies out there that can help? It's a game app address that shows up on a laptop pc.

3 comments posted: Wednesday, September 27th, 2017

Google help please

I don't have a google account. Can someone PM me please as I have a few questions

1 comment posted: Wednesday, September 6th, 2017

Facebook Robot log in???

I happened to walk but my WH the other day while he was on his phone searching for something. I could have sworn that he was on a Facebook entry page of some sort and it was asking for him to type in one of those word codes to let the program know that he wasn't a robot. Anyone seen that on Facebook? By the way he doesn't have a Facebook account any longer. At least not one that I know about.

3 comments posted: Tuesday, August 22nd, 2017

Disapearing Emoji's.......

Last night my Wh and I were in two separate places. I texted him and we went back and forth a few times. He has an Iphone 5. I get two texts from him one right after the other. They are both black screens, one with a pink solid heart and the next one with a ringed striped heart, and they seem to move ( like some do now) Right away he texts me and says "Geez" then another text saying "Malfunction" Then says "put your phone away and enjoy yourself!!!" I didn't think anything of it and went on with my evening and didn't look at my texts again til this morning. I have saved all of the texts from him since well before June 20th so have all of our text convos still on that one thread. When I looked at the texts from last night the two black texts with hearts are missing from my text string!!! How in the heck does that happen? I'm no expert but I don't think even on my NEW Iphone 7 Plus, that I have disappearing texts..... how do they just disappear from my text/phone??????Help please.I'm thinking he has some kind of emoji app or separate app that does this? And a second question, if they are using hidden apps do they show up in the Purchased section of the App store?

8 comments posted: Monday, July 17th, 2017

Battery Usage on IPhone

I have noticed that when I check the battery usage for the last 24 hours that Safari is the number one App that comes up - sometimes up to 64% for the day. More than the Phone or Messages App. My WH is a very busy guy during the day on his phone constantly and texting to a certain extent too, for business. My spidey senses are telling me that that much Safari usage with VERY little web site data showing up to say what web sites have been visited is proof that he is probably using the Private browsing mode and that he is using it a lot! Any thoughts out there ????

We have never discussed In Private browsing and I don't want to bring it up now because it may raise a flag and I have opened his phone to find that black rimmed in private screen open. Any super sleuths out there with any ideas???

0 comment posted: Wednesday, May 24th, 2017

Webwatcher capabilites

I have not used this .....yet. Anyone know if it records keystrokes on an iPhone? Would it help if phone was in Safari private mode? I'm on a mission here......

1 comment posted: Thursday, May 4th, 2017

Private browsing on Safari on iPhone

I don't ever use private browsing so know nothing on that score. On an iPhone I believe there's a private browsing feature. How do I find it to use it and is there a way that if I go into my WH phone and on to Safari can I go in to private browsing and will it autiofill preemptive text anything ? For example if I went in and typed in tin would it complete the word Tinder?? Hope that makes sense.

9 comments posted: Monday, May 1st, 2017

Program to reduce background noise on var

Anyone know of a program that will eliminate background noise from a VAR? I'm getting lots of road / engine /car noise that is making it hard to hear the conversations.

2 comments posted: Tuesday, April 11th, 2017

Can you re open a Facebook Account

My WH closed his Facebook account ( or we did together, I cant remember) Is there a way to reopen it, and will I get any back data, or activity if I do?

3 comments posted: Monday, March 27th, 2017

Game Centre on Apple IPhone

Any one out there that is familiar with the Game Centre on an IPhone? When I go in WH Phone and check the Settings and go in to the Game Centre there is a user name there. I don't have a user name showing when I go into that on my phone because I don't use the game centre. Just the fact that there is a user name there is making my spidey senses act up. Is there a way to search for that user name in that Game Centre? Any help is appreciated.

4 comments posted: Monday, March 27th, 2017