How do you handle all the grief?
That’s it. It’s done. I’ve finally had enough. Took so many years of repeated behaviours and me not having the courage to put an end to the marriage.
I’m finally doing it. I’m sad, he’s sad, and we haven’t even told the kids yet.
It’s not what I want but I can’t go on like this anymore. Maybe my trouble with grief - mine and his and the prospect of the kids’ is what made me hang in so long.
How did you cope with it?
I still can’t, and maybe never will, get my head around how he can watch me suffer, watch himself suffer after a new discovery (went from affairs to sex workers and spent a ton of money, and again!) then go and do it again?
7 comments posted: Friday, July 14th, 2023
