14 Years later and Finallly Ready to Divorce

I'll share a little background first.

I haven't been on Surviving Infidelity in ages. My WS and I separated years ago but we never filed for divorce. We just went our separate ways. I struggled for many years trying to figure out why this happened. My family (adult children) has never truly recovered. They are all still struggling in their own ways. Infidelity causes so much devastation and left my family destroyed. I was a SAHM at the time without much education/job skills. Since then, I went back to school and also got a job making enough to support myself. Life has improved, but it will never be the same if you know what I mean. I don't look at marriage/relationships the same. Especially with the internet/technology, so many people are cheating or crossing boundaries using their personal devices. It really is a sad world.

Anyway, yesterday I realized that I need to finally file for divorce. I need to really move on and not be connected to my WS in anyway. I don't know where to begin. WS and I are in agreement about splitting assets (don't have much) He'll keep his stuff and I'll keep mine. I'm looking for the least inexpensive way to do this but yet cover all bases.

I sure would appreciate any help from those who have gone before me and have filed for divorce. Any suggestions/tips would be very helpful.

Thank you so much for reading my post!

8 comments posted: Monday, June 27th, 2022