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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 7:34 PM on Thursday, July 29th, 2021
Trust is earned. No matter who they are.
And you will trust again. It may not be 100% but it will happen.
And I can tell you that I gave 15 friends/relatives who were all cheated on by their then BF/GF. Sadly they all chose to marry the cheater and the cheating continued throughout the marriage.
You made the right choice here. You just need time to deal with the pain and trauma. At least you have not had to check up on him or track him etc. you are free from that nonsense in a relationship.
[This message edited by The1stWife at 3:51 PM, July 29th (Thursday)]
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
CoderMom ( member #66033) posted at 4:43 AM on Sunday, August 1st, 2021
Healthy boundaries and self-esteem are necessary for a healthy relationship. Have you considered counseling to help make sure you are not going to go around the mountain with the him?
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