Rocko ( member #80436) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, July 11th, 2026
Gemmy,
Have you shared your story with a close friend, relative etc..?
If you have, how are they not grabbing you by the shoulders and telling you to Wake the F*** Up!
You've never had a partner\spouse in your marriage.
"Sharing Her Special Day" is a kick to your nuts that's been happening every single day of your marriage.
The thought that He was in her mind and heart on your wedding night is the ultimate in betrayal.
Peace
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 10:01 PM on Saturday, July 11th, 2026
Well said Peace.
His wife has been "less than" the spouse she should have been. Starting from the wedding day she put her own thoughts and desires ahead of the "right" thing to do — which proves the betrayed really has very little to work with here.
This cheating Wife is not about to change because she doesn’t want to.
[This message edited by The1stWife at 10:02 PM, Saturday, July 11th]
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
