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Gdthissucks, I'm so sorry that you went through this shit show..

I will no longer allow this woman or any other like her to hold my life back.

You are doing the right things!

I have known some people that are gamers, some of them are completely disconnected from reality and the real world, they have no real sense what marriage and real life is, my guess is your soon to be ex-wife in one of them.

I would like to suggest some nice books for you to read:

1- What Women Want In A Man - by Bruce Bryans

2- The Married Man Sex Life Primer - by Athol Kay (Don't let the title fool you!!)

3- No More Mr Nice Guy - by Robert A. Glover (PDF version downloadable free online)

You are in a very good place compared to some betrayed spouses here, but this books can help you even more and its an eye opener as how truly the relationship dynamics work between man and women!

good luck buddy, you doing good!

Strength and Respect ✊

It sounds like you have enough information to feel confident on how to move forward. Congratulations. For some (or most), it is difficult to accept that BS's rarely find out the whole story, and you typically cannot trust the source of the information.

Glad to hear you have a plan. Focus on your future and what you have ahead of you.

"I will no longer allow this woman or any other like her to hold my life back."

Yes, yes, and yes! Never allow anyone to disrespect you. Never allow anyone to treat you badly. Never allow anyone to betray you and get away with it.

Taking your life back is the most important thing you'll ever do. You're well on your way to achieving that goal. You have a great future ahead of you as long as you keep this mindset. You are the prize.

I wish the best for you.