Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: HappierThanEver

Reconciliation :
Telling WS's AP's spouse

Post Reply to this Topic
Page 2 of 2 1 2   Return to Forums   Return to Reconciliation
default

survrus ( member #67698) posted at 1:05 AM on Friday, June 12th, 2026

Many many reasons to tell.

One is to learn if the other betrayed spouse knew or turned a blind eye to the affair, in which case they are also accountable

posts: 1588   ·   registered: Nov. 1st, 2018   ·   location: USA
id 8897382
default

 YouCanHaveThePettyLiar (original poster new member #87450) posted at 11:25 AM on Friday, June 12th, 2026

Thanks so much for sharing your experiences. It's been very healing. For a long time, I've been beating myself up for things that I thought I could have done better to save my marriage. Gradually, I came to terms that these are just the gaslighting that the WS had done to me, to make WS's divorce decision easier to bear for the WS and less selfish.

posts: 14   ·   registered: Jun. 5th, 2026
id 8897403
Post Reply to this Topic
Page 2 of 2 1 2   Return to Forums   Return to Reconciliation
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20260402b 2002-2026 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy