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Reconciliation :
BS having a victim mindset, or WWs issue with shame blocking full R?

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survrus ( member #67698) posted at 1:00 AM on Saturday, July 29th, 2023

GC,

The kind of OM matters alot with WWs.

I have found at least with my WW that she has more long term sympathy for OM1.2 who was the worst in a criminal sense.

She viewed him more as an unfortunate person and someone who needed to be understood, cared for and loved.

In short she viewed him as a child and someone to protect from the parent, that is me, she somehow still believes he did not steal money from a woman with dementia.

[This message edited by survrus at 1:01 AM, Saturday, July 29th]

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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 9:24 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

I’m curious, gaining closure, this hour a day you have spent each day for 18 years thinking about the A, what is it you are thinking?

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