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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 3:17 AM on Sunday, June 19th, 2022

My H was planning to D me and leave me for the younger OW.

He had NO plan.

Fortunate I did.

First I had copies of everything - all assets and 401(k) accounts etc.

Then I opened my own bank accounts. He had no idea they existed.

Next I changed all our life insurance policies. I became the account owner, he was the insured. This way as account owner he could not change the beneficiary / our kids would inherit if we D.

I was going to make sure he was involved w/ kids without the OW being around.

Financially he’d be paying child support snd coleus etc until the kids were graduated.

Like I said he thought he was going to live the fun single life. Clueless - he was that clueless.

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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