really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 2:46 AM on Wednesday, January 31st, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 3:15 AM on Wednesday, January 31st, 2007
I have a Net Detective membership which is good until about June/July of 2007.
It's not a good site, very limited info, but I'll be happy to look up anything anyone wants.
If anyone needs a search, please pm me with "ND" in the subject title.
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 4:49 AM on Wednesday, January 31st, 2007
Thanks mom, I've added you. if only more people would read this first when they're looking for help, so many of us have good stuff to offer and just a PM away!
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
xineann ( member #11687) posted at 12:46 AM on Thursday, February 1st, 2007
Add me to Classmates...I have a membership for 3 months currently
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 10 years
D-Day EA : Nov 2005 (suspected PA and I was RIGHT!)
D-Day PA: May 2006 (PA ended 3/06)
Found out more 8/06 and 11/06 same AP - coworker
7 yo D
17 mo S
Relatively Reconciled
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 1:05 AM on Thursday, February 1st, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
xineann ( member #11687) posted at 3:50 AM on Friday, February 2nd, 2007
Add me to Myspace as well....and I'm kinda good at it.
Sorry....I'll stop now 
this is getting fun!
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 10 years
D-Day EA : Nov 2005 (suspected PA and I was RIGHT!)
D-Day PA: May 2006 (PA ended 3/06)
Found out more 8/06 and 11/06 same AP - coworker
7 yo D
17 mo S
Relatively Reconciled
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 3:39 PM on Friday, February 2nd, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 5:23 PM on Friday, February 2nd, 2007
Unless I'm in utter shock n having another sorta BREAKDOWN (LOL), I'm always happy to HELP scope out on the dating sites.
It takes time; think of it as "fishing"...and just waiting for that hungry fish to take a nibble.:)
It helps if you know what WS is looking for with respect to possible location, age, and depending on the site, I am a blonde, redheadhead, or brunette. 
[This message edited by dreamlife at 11:24 AM, February 2nd (Friday)]
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
k9lover1 ( member #8531) posted at 4:15 AM on Sunday, February 4th, 2007
D-Day was 10/9/05
He promised NC. He lied. After 4 chances, I kicked him out 1/05/06.
Since then I have survived cancer surgery and a heart attack.
Now he's sorry, but it's too late. He died an alcoholic on 9/5/17.
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 2:56 AM on Wednesday, February 7th, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
feelinginthedark ( member #10933) posted at 12:28 AM on Friday, February 9th, 2007
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 9:14 PM on Friday, February 9th, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 8:44 PM on Sunday, February 11th, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 3:30 PM on Tuesday, February 13th, 2007
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
Redheaded_Wife ( member #9716) posted at 3:53 PM on Tuesday, February 13th, 2007
I'm on reunion.com..add me to the list.
Red
BW 43
H 49 LTA (9/20-22/02 spent the weekend with her ONE last time and ended it)
OW is h's ex wife
Initial DD 4/04/04 She called and tried to out him
Truth trickled out until 7/5/07 when I got the whole story (yeah right)
M 11/15/86
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 12:38 PM on Friday, February 16th, 2007
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 1:15 AM on Tuesday, February 20th, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
xineann ( member #11687) posted at 1:27 AM on Tuesday, February 20th, 2007
I have Longlostpeople for one month.....can get addresses and sometimes phone numbers....
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married: 10 years
D-Day EA : Nov 2005 (suspected PA and I was RIGHT!)
D-Day PA: May 2006 (PA ended 3/06)
Found out more 8/06 and 11/06 same AP - coworker
7 yo D
17 mo S
Relatively Reconciled
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 12:03 AM on Friday, February 23rd, 2007
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 2:18 AM on Saturday, February 24th, 2007
bumping for new members to this forum. 
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
