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hereagain2 (original poster member #44695) posted at 4:31 AM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
Or bait and switch? Like when you finally set your eyes on the real deal you are surprised? Disappointed!? Or , could care less?
I'm trying to prepare myself for the dating world. Lol!!!
I should have added "padded" in the topic thread. Like Victora Secret " padded. :)
[This message edited by hereagain2 at 10:43 PM, February 2nd (Thursday)]
BoilerGuy ( new member #56073) posted at 6:47 AM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
I, being of the menz gender but only speaking for myself, would not consider this false advertising. By the time we get to see boobies, the bra won't matter. When I was a younger man, I remember my friends and I discussing the finer points of bra construction, push up, push together, push apart, etc. In the end, we are happy to see boobies.
One thing I read years ago that made me feel less anxious abbout penis size was "When it gets to the point that a woman wants to see your penis, she won't care what size it is." Same for boobies.
OrdinaryDude ( member #55676) posted at 9:18 AM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
/\/\/\ Yup, this!!! /\/\/\.
Not false advertising, though it might not be needed if you're 20 or have fake ta-tas.
I was young and dumb and stayed with a cheater.
TheBest ( member #50759) posted at 1:20 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
Yes and no. Kind of like they said, we are fairly happy regardless.
You can normally tell when a woman has a push-up anyway. While at first glance it may "trick" you, that passes very quickly.
They're a tricky situation anyway. Until you know for sure, you never know if they are the kind you can play with or more for "show". By this, I mean that someone are stimulated with breast play and some are not. There's no way to know which until you get in there and they tell you.
BS: me
WS: her
2 DDs
Trying to figure out my next move. Probably some alcohol.
TimelessLoss ( member #55295) posted at 3:14 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
No, not false advertising. It is wrapping paper...the gift is inside.
"You've got to learn to leave the table when love is no longer being served"
antlered ( member #46011) posted at 6:15 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
By the time we get to see boobies, the bra won't matter.
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vexleir ( member #56312) posted at 7:15 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
I mean, in this sense, you could consider even make-up false advertising. But like make-up, I think most men just understand it's a thing and, false advertising or not, it more importantly shows a concern for and effort towards the way you look which is great.
I think when all is said and done though, it really comes down to what BoilerGuy said:
In the end, we are happy to see boobies.
PlanNine ( member #46311) posted at 7:41 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
Bra? What bra? You mean the one she hastily removed and threw on the floor? I'd already forgotten about it.
"I was also thinking, 'Maybe I'm not a bike racer.' I doubted myself for a while, but now I'm back on track. I may not be a bike racer, but I can beat plenty of them that reckon they are." - Guy Martin
joeinfl ( member #39583) posted at 8:44 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
There is nothing wrong with trying to look your best, if a push up bra makes you feel more confident, why not. I think it's also a matter of how much padding there is, I wouldn't go crazy with it.
Hobbyist ( member #55532) posted at 9:51 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
On a similar note, ignore the balled up socks that just fell out of my pants...
BH, 30's with 3 beautiful kids. Divorced in 2017 - SO much happier!
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 10:04 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 10:45 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 10:54 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
Geeze Hobbyist, if you're going to go commando so the socks fall out, use some duct tape! Advantage is you get some manscaping done at some point.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 12:35 AM on Saturday, February 4th, 2017
Nope. No problem with that sort of thing.
hereagain2 (original poster member #44695) posted at 1:18 AM on Saturday, February 4th, 2017
Lol! Thanks everyone!
Now to do some shopping!😉
toonces ( member #25949) posted at 4:47 AM on Saturday, February 4th, 2017
Hobbyist, make sure you put the sock in the front
Me - BS
Her - WS
affair length - 6 months with OM
married since 7/92
d-day 4/2002
Braveyogi ( member #51596) posted at 5:12 PM on Saturday, February 4th, 2017
you men are hilarious! Thanks for your honesty. I love it. Great topic hereagain2!
Me: BW
Him: XWH
Married 19 years, together 22 years
2 kids, 8 and 15
DDay #1 May 2010, OC born 2011
DDay #2 March 2016; moved 1500 miles away with OW#2 and her kids for a job.
Divorced May 2017
Not my circus, not my mon
woundedwidow ( member #36869) posted at 6:40 PM on Sunday, February 5th, 2017
I'm actually glad this was posted. If I ever get back into the dating world, I was concerned about wearing an underwired bra, so I guess I'm good to go. At least that's one thing I won't have to worry about.
Be careful what you wish for the most - you may get it.
Nycountrystrong ( member #53531) posted at 8:45 PM on Sunday, February 5th, 2017
I cant speak for all men but personally I believe you should wear whatever makes you feel more confident and feel beautiful. Confidence looks good on a woman.
Personally if I feel attracted enough to a person to want to sleep with them I dont care what size breasts you have. Sexy is an attitude not a breast or dress size.
The more people I meet the more I like my dogs !
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 3:22 AM on Monday, February 6th, 2017
Not a guy...But often wondered the same thing. I have always been small chested and wore padded bras. Not much to push up, my 1/2 sister got mine and I never had a desire to have breast implants. XWH#1 didn't care about my breast size. XWH#2 kept trying to get me to have implants. Mind you he couldn't pay more than his 1/2 on bills, but offered to pay for fake boobs. At my age I thought he was crazy and still do. I told him when he had a penis enlargement we would talk about my breast.
My SO doesn't care how big or small I am and I feel the same about him. I would never date someone again that said that my boobs were too small. I only wear padded bras because they look better with certain clothes.
Sexy is an attitude not a breast or dress size.
This ^^^^. Anyone that feels different is not worth your time.
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
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"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
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