Sorry you are here and hurting. You have so much going on with the pregnancy too. Please try to take care of you and your babies first. They need you.
Curious of how you addressed your WH's cheating the first time? How did he address his issues on allowing himself to cheat?
I am curious how long and how many others you may not even know about (((sorry))).
saying he isn’t happy, hasn’t been for some time, he never wanted a baby
He says he wants to R, has been saying he loves me, doesn’t want to lose our family
^^^Which is it? Seems your WH's feelings vacillate like a yo-yo.
I’m not sure I’m getting the full story
You are correct. You are most likely not. Trust your instinct.
Please head up to the Healing Library at the upper left hand corner and read all you can.
You don't have to decide anything today except for the fact that you need to get out of infidelity.
Consider:
1) Getting tested for STD's to protect yourself and your beautiful baby.
2) Seek IC just for you. It helps in wrapping your mind around your new reality and allows you to express your feelings. It allows yourself to find you.
3) Consider speaking to an attorney. You don't have to file but know what you would be facing in regards to support, etc. Knowledge is power and sometimes just having that information is reassuring as you plan your path forward.
Deep breaths and know we understand your pain.
(((hugs and prayers)))