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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, September 4th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sitch was different, but not all that different, and in the end, these A’s all rhyme.


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Default  Posted: 5:56 AM, September 5th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bigger in General: is a vasectomy asking too much

I have to say that if my son-in-law cheated on my daughter I would probably snip him myself… with garden shears… right where his troublemaker attaches to his fun-sack

I'm still laughing. The mind movies. OMG!!!


Married 32yrs Me BW 58Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, September 6th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fool4adecade's replay to this question:
What do you do/how to you feel/how do you react when you see the OW?
I have to see her occasionally on the school run or in shops. I find it very difficult.

However, last Friday there was a real breakthrough at the HS football game. Once again, we find seats and OW decides to sit one row down and 5 feet to the left of us on the bleachers - next to the walkway. This time, however, my friends were with us to see their god children perform. God bless her, my BFF saw what was happening and stopped on her way up the stairs right behind OW and turned around and mooned me and started shaking her butt! (She had on leggings and a long blouse, no indecent exposure on school grounds!) My kids started saw and started playing "Can't Touch This" Bleacher music, and the band joined in! Well, I burst out laughing and and POINTING toward her! My WH looked over where I was pointing and bust out laughing. OW thought we were laughing at HER and everyone around us was laughing! OW turned beat red, burst out crying, got up and RAN amongst cat calls of WOO HOO SHAKE IT, BABY!! that weren't even at her. I guess OW's "all about her" attitude backfired this time.

Made me laugh so loud my boss came down the hall to find out what was so funny! Thanks for the great start to a Friday!

Posts: 171 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: florida
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, September 8th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have this great new life because I took all the piles of shit that he handed me and pressure cooked the fuck out of it till I got diamonds.

- tesla

Posts: 6750 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
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Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, September 9th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Never lose yourself while trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you.

credit to lieshurt signature

Me: 45, him: 54
together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That man is a butter knife in the cutlery drawer of life.
Skan commenting on Tesla's erudite ex-shat.

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

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Default  Posted: 7:51 PM, September 11th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From Butterfly girl on whether someone should send their XWH a final letter...

I don't think he's worthy of your feelings anymore.. He doesn't deserve them..
And I think he would just use them against you anyway. It's like handing him the knife to stab you with..

Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, September 12th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aesir...from a thread in General

True love conquering all and accepting both the good and the bad is not about suddenly discovering horrible things about your partner, it is about conquering the rough times together as a team.

Oh so true.....

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, September 16th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


...disordered people can spot me, "Like A Lion Spots A Limp!"


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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From DamncuteKitty in NB:

You could dangle a Ryan Gosling lookalike in front of me bearing wine and chocolate, but if I need to stuff a ball gag in his mouth to stop the stupid from coming out then there is just no point.

Sometimes the strongest people hide the deepest pain.

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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, September 17th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 44
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, September 18th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

JJCT in a response over in JFO forum. Was an aha moment for me.

When you live inside yourself, your dependence on external validation decreases to the point where your tolerance for fuckery vanishes.

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Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, October 3rd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I responded to his great email with, "Thank you for the email, but my kids tie me down needlessly. Good luck in your search."

Was I a bitch? I hope so.

Cmego being my hero in an OLD response.

"Sometimes people are mean, and sometimes things will be hard. One of your jobs is to try and make sure that that never makes you mean and hard, too." Cord Jefferson's Mom

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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, October 4th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I asked again how many times do you really think you got her off. He says a few times. I mentioned again that was her job, and did he really believe he got her off?

He says yes, and why did I think he didn't get her off?

My reply: because I've had sex with you

from Hope2B - asking her H if he truly believed that he and his prostitute achieved simultaneous orgasms...

Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 3 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, October 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LadyQ, in D/S, in her post "On co-parenting with a lower muppet... "

A two-fer.

Started with:

Although I hate to insult puppets, this is the best way to describe x: all foam and feathers, and no substance.

and ended with:

Fuck him and the whore he rode in on!

Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, October 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From a thread in JFO. Momoftana describes what true remorse should look like:

He should be standing on his head shitting nickles while whistling Dixie.

Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really buddy? How's that 22 working out for you? But what do I know, perhaps the dust from my dying ovaries has clouded my judgement

Confused1829 about OLD in NB.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 6:48 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The SI WS's that do the work are the unicorns in a vast sea of donkeys.


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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, October 15th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Haven't read this, but in general, I could eat alphabet soup and shit better advice than Dr. Laura. So I'm going with "against".

Unfound's opinion on a book by Dr. Laura.

Growing forward

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Happy  Posted: 7:05 PM, October 19th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw snap, Cuz! I made the quote thread!

I can't take credit for the moniker "lower Muppet", I read that in D/S, and jacked it.

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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