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All good things come to an end

Adlham posted 6/8/2019 23:16 PM

Finally, after years of not paying child support and getting to 20K in back support, ex-asshat has FINALLY paid off his debt to my nearly 23-year old kid!

I am truly 100% done ever having to hassle the state to go after him!

It's all over! Forever!

So very excited to hit this final milestone!

But also, just a little bummed that I no longer have a way to twist the knife whenever one of his poor victims call ME for support. Maybe it's not real healthy, but I did rather enjoy setting the state on him.

Since it all goes on a debit card, as soon as I pull the money off, I think I'm going to do a nice ritual burning and let the last of that bastard go.

It is so freeing!

Phoenix1 posted 6/9/2019 00:27 AM

Congrats!

Carissima posted 6/9/2019 02:27 AM

Well do you have to stop?

I mean if what he's doing is technically illegal then you're only being a concerned citizen. Right?

Only kidding, congratulations. Now onto the next hobby

ZenMumWalking posted 6/9/2019 06:11 AM

Woo Hoooooooooo!!!!!!

BearlyBreathing posted 6/9/2019 12:38 PM

HAPPY DANCE!!

Furious1 posted 6/9/2019 15:19 PM

Congratulations!!!!

Adlham posted 6/9/2019 20:55 PM

Thanks, everyone!

It was the absolute last thing tying me to him.

My daughter cut him off completely back when she was about 15. His own damn fault. He wasn't at all interested in getting to know her or be a parent. That was glaringly obvious when he decided to fuck off across the U.S. when she was 3 and never bothered keeping in touch. He'd contact her every few years to tell her how awful I was and then disappear again.

So she set some ground rules as a teen, he blew multiple chances and she cut him out.

It sounds awful, doesn't it? I bent over backwards trying to get her to give him one more chance when her cousin died, but you know what? She was never, ever a priority for him and she knows it. It's super hard to convince a kid somebody loves them when that somebody can't even be bothered to send her a fucking birthday card once a year.

And damn, I got real tired of carrying that burden for him. Not that I did it for him. I kept that pretense up for years for HER.

So it's finally all done and dusted! Pretty thrilled about it, too!

Edited a typo

[This message edited by Adlham at 8:56 PM, June 9th (Sunday)]

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