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The empty chair

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 ff4152 (original poster member #55404) posted at 8:07 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2020


My hope is that anyone who still misses their AP will read this and consider the implications.


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Evertrying ( member #60644) posted at 11:37 PM on Thursday, October 15th, 2020

Right after dday, (and when my husband's head was still in his butt) I tried to explain this exact thing to him. That he risked our marriage and caused a possible "empty chair" situation.

Because we have no children, if we divorced there would be absolutely no reason for us to ever see each other again. It would be like a death. He looked at me in disbelief and didn't get the full scale of that possibility.

BS - 55 on dday
WH - 48 on dday
Dday: 9/1/17
Status: Reconciled

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AintGonnaLose ( member #72530) posted at 12:28 AM on Saturday, October 17th, 2020

My hope is that anyone who still misses their AP will read this and consider the implications.

ff, I totally get it. The song is perfect for what you were saying. If you haven’t heard it, you should absolutely listen to it. You and anyone who might miss their AP. “Empty Chairs” by Don McClean.

[This message edited by AintGonnaLose at 8:22 PM, October 16th (Friday)]

BW 39
WH 45
D-day 1/20/2017
6-7 years of emotional disloyalty, 3 years of SA online behavior and A seeking. So far we suck at R.

—I consider it a challenge before the whole human race

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JBWD ( member #70276) posted at 5:03 AM on Monday, October 19th, 2020

That second sink REALLY sucks most days...

Me: WH
(Multiple OEA/PA, culminating in 4 month
EA/PA. D-Day 20 Oct 2018 41 y/o)
Married 14 years
Her: BS 37 y/o at D-Day
13 y/o son, 10 y/o daughter
6 months HB, broken NC, TT
SUCKED at growth and rebuilding

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Topic is Sleeping.
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